What is a Kink Coach?
What is a Kink Life Coach? What is a Kinky Sex Coach? Why do you spell Coach with a K? What do you … do? All excellent questions! Let’s dive in.
What is a kink life coach? What is a kinky sex coach?
A Life Coach is an advisor who helps people make decisions, set and reach goals, or deal with problems. Generally this advisor or guide is learned in subjects such as time management, goal setting, confidence, interpersonal relations and other applicable skills. A Kink Life Coach is a niche version of a life coach or Lifestyle coach, that specializes in relationships, romance, kink dynamics and the improvement of kink experiences. Because kink is often times associated with sex (though not always), a Kink Coach will naturally have some familiarity with Sex Coaching along with romance, relationship, communication and kink coaching.
Why do you spell Coach with a K?
I get asked this a lot actually. It’s just Coach and Kink put together. So … Koach.
Why did you become the Kink Koach?
I’ve have been Kinky for as long as I can remember and involved in the BDSM world both personally and professionally for over a decade. I live the “Lifestyle” as it’s called 24/7 but many people would be surprised as to how “normal” that looks. It is because there are so many misconceptions and, in my opinion, missed opportunities for connection because of how kink is represented in pop culture, that I want to do my part in changing minds and opening hearts. I’ve always been a teacher, and I have been told I’m quite good at it.
What do you ... do?
I can only speak to how I help my own clients. I as the Kink Koach, I strive to help clients identify their desires and learn how to fulfill them in a safe, consensual, healthy way that brings joy and play into their lives. I do this through a variety of techniques and lessons. Sometimes clients need skills training, sometimes time management help, sometimes I design a sex room to help spark play, and sometimes I just listen. I have a well developed curriculum of lessons and tailor lesson plans to each client experience. If a clients needs go beyond my professional preview, I have a list of therapists I recommend.